Signs You’re Being a Doormat in Your Relationship

Posted by: | Posted on: July 5, 2017

No one can deny that a solid pillar of relationships is making sacrifices for the other person, and com-promising. But when you find that you’re making too many sacrifices, and your integrity is slipping, it could mean you’re being taken advantage of in your relationship and acting like a doormat instead of being so virtuously selfless.

  1. You’re fine with broken promises. Keeping your promises is an important part of a relationship, and constantly accepting that disappointment will keep low expectations and lead to a broken relationship. Nip it in the bud
  1. You live off the crumbs, so to say – the only text he’s sent in 7 days lights your face up, even though it shouldn’t. When you complain you haven’t met his friends or family, he introduces you to unimportant co-workers to string you along and brushes off a serious request. Don’t settle for crumbs – hold yourself like the goddess you are!
  2. He calls himself “spontaneous”, but last minute dates and frequent flaking make him sound more like a jerk that sounds doesn’t care about your time and is only concerned about his own.
  1. But in the same vein, you don’t let him know that keeping dates and promises are important. You’re always waiting around, and never say that you’re busy. Even if you had previous plans with your BFF, you’ll bail if he sends a casual, “you around?” text. Hoes over bros, ladies, remember that!
  1. You don’t set boundaries for yourself. If you say, “no”, you feel guilty and he puts blame on you, but if he says “no”, it’s totally the norm. Rules should apply to both of you!
  1. If you feel yourself starting to resent the nice things he does for you, it probably means you’re being taken advantage of, and you’re realizing your doormat status. Embrace the awakening and get out of there, girl! Someone genuine deserves your nice actions way more than this loser.
  2. People that you trust and rely on for honesty in your life say that you’re “too nice.” This often means, “you’re a doormat,” in a non-aggressive way, so don’t take it as a compliment. Friendliness is a virtue, but being too nice means that you don’t know when to put yourself first or set boundaries regarding your self-respect.
  1. Your significant other keeps making you split the bill, or is always conveniently forgetting his money. This is scrub behaviour at its finest! You deserve to be treated and taken care of instead of the one who’s always taking care of everybody else. The next time he “forgets his wallet”, say that it’s no problem to wait at the restaurant while he goes home and retrieves it, to call out his fakery.
  1. Your needs overall just aren’t important to him. And the definition of a partner is someone that pro-vides mutually what you provide to them. If what matters to you don’t matter to them, cut that person loose. All they’ll provide is toxic energy that will drag you down and keep you dependent on them. Don’t let the fools rope you in, and rely on girlfriends for love and compliments when you’re feeling low. Wait for the one that deserves you.

 


Romantic Orientation: Just How Many Different Kinds Are There?

Posted by: | Posted on: July 4, 2017

 

When it comes to who you want to spend your life with, there are many different things you have to know. Your sexual orientation may play a huge role in your relationship but your romantic orientation is an even bigger part. That’s right. In addition to there being specific sexual orientations, there are also different romantic orientations we all should educate ourselves on. The difference between sexual orientation and romantic orientation Don’t feel bad if you thought they were the same thing. The truth is, many people don’t realize that there are different types of orientations. There’s a huge difference between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. And that’s why they’re separated into specific orientations. Romantic orientation is who you’re attracted to on a romantic level. These are the people you see yourself developing a romantic relationship with. Sometimes these people are the same people you’re sexually attracted to, but not always. Sexual orientation, on the other hand, is who you feel a strong desire to have sex with.

  1. Aromatic. This romantic orientation can be a little difficult to understand to those of us who feel romance. And that’s because aromatic people do not. They have absolutely no desire to form a romantic connection with a person and they can’t feel it.However, they can feel sexual desire if they’re not asexual. There are far too many people labeling people of this romantic orientation as “smutty” simply because their relationships consist of sex only. And that’s because they just can’t feel a romantic connection.This is in no way true at all. They’re not smutty. They form relationships for the purpose of having sex and those people can also be companions to them. People who are aromatic can still have close friendships.
  1. Biros mantic. I’m sure by now you’re picking up that many of these romantic orientations are very similar to the names of sexual orientations. So that would mean this one is when someone is attracted to both men and women romantically.Those who are biromantic can feel a romantic connection and attraction with both men and women. However, this doesn’t necessarily mean that is also their sexual orientation.
  1. Heteroromantic. If someone is romantically attracted to a different gender other than their own, they’re heteroromantic. This is also oftentimes paired with a person’s sexual orientation, but not always. More often, someone’s sexual orientation can be bisexual or even fluid while their romantic orientation remains heteroromantic.
  1. Homoromantic. When someone is homoromantic, they are romantically attracted to the same gender as themselves. Meaning men desire romantic relationships with other men and women with other women. This is definitely seen paired with someone also being homosexual, as well. But that’s not always the case and some can feel a romantic attraction toward their own gender but a sexual attraction toward another.
  1. Panromantic. If you’ve never heard of pan romantic, chances are you’ve never heard of pansexual either. No worries! This is a less common romantic and sexual orientation, but just as valid as the rest. Someone who is pan romantic can form a romantic attraction toward anyone, regardless of their gender. A person’s gender has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not they will feel romantically connected with them.
  1. Polyromantic. Don’t get this romantic orientation and pan romantics confused. They’re much different but can be seen as the same by those who are less informed. The fact is, being polyromantic is when someone can form a romantic attraction for multiple genders, but not all of them. So even if they are romantically attracted to all but 1, they’re still polyromantic and NOT pan romantic.
  1. Gray-romantic. This can be a little tricky to understand for a number of reasons. Basically, gray-romantic individuals can feel romantic attraction, but it’s very rare. They don’t experience it very often and when they do, there’s no rhyme or reason to it. This can be confused with demiromantic individuals, but it’s not the same. Those who are gray-romantic don’t know what makes them feel romance every now and then. It can be completely sporadic and there’s not a single trait nor person who can make them feel it. This is much different them demiromantics.

Celebrities Who Lost or Almost Lost It All Over Alcohol or Drugs

Posted by: | Posted on: July 2, 2017

 

It is awful to see how someone you actually like transforms into a live zombie. Too many famous people drowned in alcohol or drugs ruining their careers and sometimes giving away lives. We keep them in memory as brilliant artists with cute faces as they were soon after becoming famous. Although today they can look quite different.

Amy Wine house
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Her tragic story is an open wound of all fans that loved Amy as a talented singer and a songwriter. She has preferred drugs addiction to her career and even life.

Whitney Houston
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Another musical genius who sacrificed her talent. There are rumors that she lost her voice and could hardly thing in the last few years of her life.

Lindsay Loan
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from cute child to a freak in just a few years. Numerous mug shots and drunken hi-jinks made most of Lindsay’s fans turn their backs.

Charlie Sheen
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once he was a dream of millions, now he can hardly take a step without a glass of whiskey in his hand.

 


Does She Like Me? 17 Signs she’s clearly interested in you.

Posted by: | Posted on: June 30, 2017

Men aren’t that different than women regarding this topic. We all spend our time thinking if another person likes us, unsure of what to do. We’re only human. But the way best way to see if she’s into you, is to watch what she does.

 

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Remember, fells. All you have to do is keep your eyes open.  Don’t complicate things. As the saying goes, “actions speak louder than words.” There’s reason that saying is so popular… because it’s true. But you still need to be realistic and not fool yourself. So here are some ways to know if she’s into you.

  1. She’s hanging around. Listen, we don’t hang around guys that we’re not interested in. I mean, we have our male friends, but if you’re a new guy, there’s no way I’m spending time with you if I don’t feel anything. It’s not going to happen. People only spend time with those they find worthy of giving their time to.
  2. She carries on the conversation. She may be shy in the beginning, however, that doesn’t mean she’s not interested. You have to give her some time to relax and open up.

Now, if she never does open up, then that’s different. However, if she’s the one carrying on conversation and engaging, then that’s a good sign that she’s interested in what you have to say.

  1. All about the laughs. If she’s laughing at even your dad jokes, then that’s a great sign she’s into you. If I’m not interested in a guy and he cracks a lame joke, the most he’ll get is a pity smile – that’s right, a pity smile. But if she’s tearing up from laughing at your jokes, she really finds you funny. And women love funny guys.
  2. It’s in the eyes. If you stop looking at our boobs for two seconds and move your eyes up, you can actually see her interest in you. Her eyes will sparkle when she’s listening to you talk or when she’s looking at you while laughing. You’ll see it. You just need to look.]
  3. She acknowledges you. If we don’t like you, then you might get a “hi” if you’re lucky. For the most part, we’ll ignore you. But if she acknowledges you in a room and gives you attention, well, then it’s only a matter of time.
  4. All smiles. If she can’t stop smiling around you, well, come on, she’s one happy girl. If we don’t like the guy, you’ll be lucky if we even crack a smile. But if we’re really into you, our faces will be sore by the end of the day.
  5. Her friends know about you. Yeah, well, we don’t tell our friends about guys that we’re not interested in. Honestly, there’s no point. We talk about guys that we potentially are interested in. So, if her friends know about you, she’s been talking.
  6. She relaxes around you. This will take some time, but if you notice her acting less tense and more natural, then that’s a good sign that she’s becoming comfortable. Maybe she’ll tell you her bad jokes or accidentally burp in front of you and laugh it off.
  7. She touches you. She’s not going to rub your dick, I’m sorry, it doesn’t work like that. But she will touch your arm while she laughs, or maybe she’ll give you a back massage. If she takes the initiative to touch you, then she’s interested. I wouldn’t touch a guy who I don’t like. That would be egging him on.
  8. Asks if you have a girlfriend. She probably won’t ask you straight up, but she’ll most likely say something like, “Oh, I bet your girlfriend laughs all the time at your jokes.” Bam. That’s it. That’s the ticket. She’s fishing to see what your status is.]
  9. Revealed personal information. I’m not talking about her SIN number or her credit card pin. Maybe her parents divorced when she was young and that traumatized her, or that her grandma recently died. You don’t tell this information to people you just met or don’t trust. If she opens up to you about this, then she trusts you.
  10. She’s fully present when around you. Her phone isn’t being checked every two seconds and she’s not ignoring you while she’s talking to her friends. No, no, no. She’s fully present, her phone is put away, and she’s engulfed in conversation with you. That is someone who likes you.
  11. You two text and are active on social media. If she’s texting you and liking your statuses on Face book, that’s great. I know, you would not have known that social media would be an indicator for knowing if she likes you, but it is. If you’re the one who’s always texting her and liking her posts, stop and see if she starts texting you instead. If she doesn’t, then she’s not really interested in you.
  12. She teases you. This is called flirting. If she’s flirting with you and teasing you playfully, that’s a great sign. Flirt back and see what she does. Don’t be shy to flirt back; it’s a great way to build up sexual tension between the two of you.
  13. She wants to be close. If you guys are hanging out, she may be walking close to you or sitting beside you without much light in between you guys. And that’s a good thing. We like to be close to people we feel safe and secure around. Same goes you for guys as well. If she likes you, she’ll want to be close to you.
  14. She hints at hanging out one-on-one. She may suggest there’s some new movie that she’d like to see or that she loves going to the beach. That’s your in. That’s the moment that you have to grab the opportunity. So, if she says things like that, then suggest the two of you going and see her reaction.
  15. She doesn’t reject anything sexual. Well, this is a solid sign. If you go to kiss her and she doesn’t dodge you… then go for it. If she kisses you back, then that’s a great sign. If she doesn’t turn down any sexual moves on your end, then obviously, you shouldn’t be worried.

 


Her Husband Thought She Was Cheating After He Saw Her Bank Statements. The Truth Was Way Worse.

Posted by: | Posted on: June 24, 2017

This is an intense scam…
When he discovered what was really happening, he realized his wife was the real victim. When a UK man saw his wife’s bank statements, after she had taken out monumental loans with no explanation, he knew for sure that she was cheating on him. In his mind, there was no other possible explanation for why his wife would make these kinds of drastic financial choices.
Once he dug a bit deeper, he began to unwind a complex scam, realizing that he wasn’t the victim… His wife was.

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